7 mentalities that can’t be required in OL workplace
When people are in the workplace, they must participate in social interactions. The scope of socialization has a lot to do with everyone’s occupation, hobbies, lifestyle and location.
In real life, some people can’t make friends in social life, or they don’t make friends for long, their friends leave him again, and their relationship with colleagues is usually not harmonious.
The reason is that the bad psychological state in social affairs hinders the normal development of interpersonal relationships, that is, the socially ill psychology caused by psychologists.
The more common ones are the following, which should be avoided:
Inferiority: Some people are prone to inferiority, and even look down on themselves, lack self-confidence, do not have the courage to do things, be fearful, and echo, without having their own opinions.
If this psychology is not overcome, it will wear away the unique personality of the person.
Cowardly Psychology: It is mainly found in people who are not deeply involved in the world, have relatively little experience, are introverted, and are not good at speaking. Due to cowardice, they even think that they are right in social affairs, but after careful consideration, they are afraid to express it.
This kind of mentality can also be observed by others, and as a result, they have an opinion on themselves and do not want to be good friends.
Suspicion: Some people are social or entrusting their friends to do business. They often like to look at each other with distrustful eyes. They have no reason to doubt, catch the wind, and make irresponsible remarks. For example, some people ask friends to do business, but ask other people about their work.What happened, the result affected the relationship between friends.
Rebellious psychology: Some people always like to raise the bar with others to show that they are different. For any matter, right or wrong, I think it is bad; if you are right, I say it is wrong, so that others have a problem with themselves.Disgusting.
Psychology of play: Some people treat friends as if they are playing in the field. When they are in the Qin Dynasty, they change their minds and cope with each other. They love bragging and love to talk beautifully. When they have met someone, they will say how deep they have been with someone.
This kind of person-to-person contact is just a superficial article, so there is no deep friendship (emotional blog, emotional talk) 6.
Money greed: Some people think that the purpose of making friends is to “use each other”, only to see friends who are useful to them and can bring benefits to themselves, and often “break bridges across the river.”
This kind of bad psychology for gaining money and gaining the light of others is enough to damage one’s personality.
Indifferent psychology: Some people treat indifferent things as long as they have nothing to do with them, or ignore them, or mistakenly think that their words are sharp and arrogant, that is, “personality”, which makes others dare not approach themselves, thus losing some friends.